Thursday, December 27, 2012
Life in Christ According to Charlie - Part 2
Thursday, December 20, 2012
Life in Christ According to Charlie
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Adrenal Exhaustion
Thursday, December 6, 2012
Trapped in Traditions
Thanksgiving Day is now over and people are gearing up for Christmas. We don’t have too drive to far off of our farm to see glistening lights and embellished trees taking their places in the homes all around us. Many are getting ready for their community’s best decorated homes contests, Festival of Trees and Christmas tours of homes.
I recall, as a young girl, that we put-up our Christmas tree on Christmas Eve. We weren’t getting ready for any sort of contest; instead it was a preparation of the heart for what we believed the next day signified, the birth of Jesus. While I have a very different understand of and stance regarding “Christmas” today, decorating our home was a very simple and enjoyable family event. We went into the woods, chose the best looking scrub cedar that we could find, cut it down and drug it home. In the warmth and quietness of our home we made popcorn and cranberry garlands to adorn our specially selected tree. Once the garland was in place, it was time to hang the homemade ornaments that we’d constructed through the years. Each ornament carried with it a special meaning and stirred memories. As we tranquilly decorated, we reminisced.
Today, many people rush to decorate their homes immediately after Thanksgiving and the process is often anything but simple, family oriented, peaceful or Christ-centered. Every room in the house is decorated to the hilt, a perfectly manufactured “tree” comes out of storage and every bough is embellished “just so”. Children are often excluded from the activity because the décor is too expensive for their clumsy little hands, besides they aren’t thoughtful enough in where they place the decorations on the tree! If children are included at all, the entire process often and unnecessarily becomes a nerve-wracking fiasco at which Jesus is never mentioned.
A number of years ago, I took our son, Jake and some of his friends to a concert in the city. Afterwards, we drove to the “rich” section of town to see all the Christmas lights. The homes were enormous and the decorations were elaborate! As we meandered through the avenues and cul-de-sacs, we “oohed and aahed” over all the pomp. Eventually, we came to a place that was absolutely astounding. It looked like a park with a highly-structured fence all around it. Beyond all the spectacular yard decorations, we could see a massive building off in the distance.
The towering ornate gate at the entrance was opened
and we followed the car in front of us in.
As we drove through,
one of the teens noticed that the gate was closing behind us and squealed,
“Oh my gosh! We’re trapped!”
The further we made our way up the long drive, the more we realized that the gate was not open for the public, but had been purposely unlocked for the car in front of us. We just happened to be there at the “right” time. This was not a park, it was a private residence! I couldn’t turn around and it wouldn’t have helped if I could. I had no way to open the gate. My only choice was to meander up the lengthy drive to the mansion in front of us. Once they realized what I was going to do the teenagers were beside themselves, yet giggling all the way, “I can’t believe we are doing this!” “This is so embarrassing!” “You are really going to do this aren’t you?”
I drove under the graceful canopy, got out of the car, walked up to the extravagant front door and rang the door bell. I could hear merriment of a party coming from inside. It seemed like forever before anyone responded. Finally a sophisticated, middle-aged man came to the door holding a toddler dressed in her Christmas best. While I wasn’t invited inside, I can’t even begin to describe the splendor that I saw from the door step! The one thing that stands out in my mind is the four foot tall luxuriant Santas which lined the steps of the spiraling staircase seeming to rise to the heavens! Each St Nick was dressed according to customs from all over the world. I wonder if the little girl helped to set them into place.
Christmas traditions often leave us feeling as though we are trapped in a circle drive, surrounded by unfathomable materialism, with no way out. While the obtrusive gate is intimidating, turning around and driving back through it is an option. Just ask the “Owner” and the gate will be opened! There is no man-made tradition worth the freedom that you’ll experience when you drive through to the other side. While others along for the ride may not understand the direction that you’ve chosen, often they are just waiting for someone else to make the first turn!
Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie
P.S. Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/. You may also contact me at:
Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
Thursday, November 29, 2012
The Kitchen Queen
We’ve heated with wood for several years so I’m aware that there isn’t anything easy about the art of cooking on a wood burning stove. There is wood to be cut and hauled, a fire to be maintained and ashes to be cleaned out. Helping my Amish friend, Rhoda in her bakery, I’m also aware that using a wood burning oven is not nearly as convenient as turning the knob of an oven thermostat. I’ve learned that starting a fire on a cold blustery day can be a frustrating and smoky experience and that I could have an entire meal prepared in the conventional oven in the time that it takes to get the wood burning oven hot enough to bake! Regardless, I love the “simplicity”.
In my mind, food doesn’t taste any better than that cooked on a wood burning stove
and there is nothing more cozy than nestling into the warmth of a crackling fire on a cold winter day!
Wood burning cook stoves were the centerpiece of most kitchens for nearly two centuries! By the 1920s, gas ovens had replaced the wood burning cook stove in most homes. While I’ve always had the convenience of owning gas and electric stoves, for as long as I can remember, I’ve dreamed of living in the wilderness, cooking on a wood burning cook stove and birthing my babies at home. As my early adult years unfolded, I got distracted and off track and those dreams got buried in the trials and responsibilities of life. Unless Father has plans for us, as he did Sarah and Abraham, I’m done having babies, however we’ve concluded that it’s not too late to nestle into our little country home enjoying the beauty and warmth of a wood burning cook stove.
As always, we did our homework to determine what would best serve our needs at the best price. We decided on The Kitchen Queen! The Kitchen Queen not only has a 43”x21” cooking surface, she has a huge firebox that provides heat for 2000 square feet of living space for 12-16 hours and the ability to siphon 40 gallons of hot water per hour into our hot water tank! My favorite feature is the spacious oven. Not only will my 16” pizza pans fit in the oven, I can bake eight loaves of bread at one time!
Once we made the purchase, we got busy preparing a noble spot for the Kitchen Queen! Off the backside of our kitchen is a good size closed-in area with a concrete floor. We gave everything a good cleaning, insulated the exterior walls with heavy duty insulation and put a fresh coat of paint on the interior walls. I hung all of our cast iron cookware and filled a large bookshelf with all my canning equipment. Tada! Our summer kitchen was ready! As the days went by, the excitement rose. When the freight carrier called and said that he was thirty minutes away, we could hardly stand the wait! However, we were informed that their job was to unload it off the truck…period! The Kitchen Queen is no feather weight that you can easily slide around in order to dust under her! She weighs in at 900#! Getting her into position was no easy task! With their game-plan in place, a lot of fancy maneuvering and muscle, brother Art and Gary got “the queen” onto the “throne” that we had prepared just for her.
“The queen’s” debut was homemade pizza baked in her oven! Today she and I are canning pumpkin butter on her stove-top. Now that I’m getting the hang of how she operates, “the queen” and I are going to prepare a very special meal for Gary and Art for all their hard work to make it possible for her to be a part of our family.
The Kitchen Queen! She’s beautiful! She’s regal! She’s a dream come true!
Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie
P.S. Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/. You may also contact me at:
Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
505 Jefferson St.
Diagonal, IA 50845
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Peanut Butter and Other Desires of Our Hearts Part II
Last week I shared that it isn't uncommon for well meaning people to claim, “God wants to give us the desires of our heart. All we have to do is ask,” yet we simply cannot rightly conclude that the Father’s will is to always fulfill every desire of our heart. When Jesus prayed at Gethsemane, He knew it was appropriate, even necessary to express His desire to the Father that the cup of death would pass over Him. However, even greater than what He wanted, He knew that the Father’s will was perfect. And for Him, the Father’s will was death on the cross. Therefore… he prayed that the Father’s will be accomplished through His death.
We could argue all day long that God’s will is to always give us the desires of our hearts. But… how do we reconcile Job 42:2, I know that you can do all things; no plan of yours can be thwarted (Job 42:2). If it is Father’s plan to always satisfy our desires, it would be accomplished! It obviously is not! Could it be that we don’t get what we ask for because we aren't praying according to His plan?
So… if it isn't always comfort, if it isn't always healing, if it isn't always physical needs, and if it isn't always transformation of our loved ones; what are the gifts from the Father that we can always be certain of:
Don’t let anyone fool you into believing that you must meet certain requirements before God will answer your prayers. I spent years in anguish, confusion and even anger over trying to “connect with God”. When I realized that I was attempting to attain something that I already have, I found that I was much more rested, satisfied, and even at peace. Through Jesus, we are already one with the Father! Don’t be afraid to tell Him that you’d really like to have some peanut butter, but remember, while He isn't disinterested in our physical needs and emotional desires, His greater concern is our spiritual development. In fact, Father often uses our wanting in order to fix our eyes upon Him and to help us to recognize those gifts which have eternal value.
When praying for a specific situation or person I find that, out of habit, my first thoughts often turn to my desires. I am then reminded that prayer isn't about my requests. Prayer is about recognizing and enjoying my oneness with Father. Yes, He wants to hear my heart, but He also wants me to trust Him so completely that I’m willing to genuinely pray in all circumstances, Yet not my will, but yours be done (Luke 22:42).
Don’t know how to pray? Father has a gift for you - If any of you lack wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously without finding fault, and it will be given to him (James 1:5).
Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie
P.S. Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/. You may also contact me at:
Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
505 Jefferson St.
Diagonal, IA 50845
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Peanut Butter and Other Desires of Our Hearts
If only the missionary had a tad more faith!
If only the parents had contacted one more prayer group to pray for their dying child.
If only the starving child would have praised God ten minutes more each day!
If only the lonely wife would have prayed the right words more often!
that the power to rule the world is at their finger tips
if only they would get it right!
Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
505 Jefferson St.
Diagonal, IA 50845