THE NUMBER OF OUR DAYS

Have you ever considered what it will be like to die: How’s it going to happen? How old will I be? Who will see me through it? Maybe you have faced death in the past or maybe you are facing it right now! As a trauma nurse and having faced life-threatening health issues myself, I understand how frightening it can be. Consider with me, if you will, what I believe the Lord has shown me as I’ve wrestled through this issue.

From the moment we are conceived, we begin to face death. It could happen anytime from that point on. Yet, most of us become extremely anxious when an “expert” tells us, “You only have a short time to live” and we begin to take every measure possible in an attempt to “preserve ourselves.”

Traditional cancer “treatment” is a good example of this. Even the least medically minded person, if they would honestly consider it, would realize the devastating affects of chemotherapy. Why do we so readily assent to being injected with poisonous chemicals which wipe-out everything in their path, including healthy cells, in an effort to annihilate the unhealthy? When we consent to irradiating diseased cells, we are yielding to lethal doses of cancer-causing radiation! When we acquiesce to removing lymph nodes, our immune system, which is absolutely necessary to stand against the deadly “management” of cancer, is significantly altered! I’m not sure I understand …

Why are we willing to go to such illogically drastic measures

in a last-ditch effort to extend our lives

when we are clearly told,

Man’s days are determined;

you have decreed the number of his months

and have set limits he cannot exceed?

(Job 14:5)

Why do we squander what could be our last days consumed with running from one medical appointment to another? Why do we choose to expend those precious moments in a medicated daze unable to enjoy them or our loved-ones? Why do we mindlessly chase after “the most successful treatment available,” leaving our loved ones in financial ruin? The traditional medical approach to cancer is presented as being concerned about “quality of life.” Oh really? For whom? I’ve never witnessed a cancer patient experiencing any quality of life and this certainly can’t be referring to the lives of their loved ones who ride the medical merry-go-round along side of them!

“Oh, chemotherapy and radiation cured me of cancer,” some might say. I respectfully disagree. In my humble opinion, the fact that you survived the barbaric, money making scheme is a miracle of God and a reminder of exactly Who is in control of the number of days that you live!

I know people who have been told by their doctor that they have only a few days left to live and they are still alive, years later. On the other hand, others have been given a “clean bill of health” and they go home and die the same day! I cared for a man who held a shotgun in his mouth, aimed toward his skull and pulled the trigger. When he arrived at our trauma center, he was sitting up-right on the gurney. From every view, the x-rays revealed buck-shot scattered throughout his skull, yet he was experiencing no ill effects from the trauma whatever! Laughing he said, “I can’t even do this right!” I still wonder today if this event caused him to consider that no one and nothing can do anything to shorten or extend our days!

I recall having a heart-to-heart conversation with my son, Jake just before he left for combat in Afghanistan. Through tears, I reminded him and myself that no matter where he is or what he is doing, his days are already numbered. With all the assurance within me, I recited Psalm 139:15-16 -

When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

your eyes saw my unformed body.

All the days ordained for me were written in your book

before one of them came to be.

While Jake was home on leave, a military brother was killed filling the position which Jake normally held!

Show me, O Lord,

my life’s end and the number of my days;

let me know how fleeting is my life.

Psalm139:4

Don’t misunderstand me to say that we shouldn’t be wise in how we care for ourselves nor was I suggesting that Jake stand out in the middle of the battlefield daring the “enemy” to shoot him. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit, so we must honor God with our bodies (1 Corinthians6:19-20)! What I am saying is,

In his hand is the life of every creature and the breath of all mankind.

Job 12:10

Whole-Heartedly,

Bonnie

P.S. Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/. You may also contact me at:

Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
505 Jefferson St.
Diagonal, IA 50845

I HAVE RISEN! I HAVE RISEN INDEED! HALLELUJAH!

Typically the “Easter” focus in the Church is on the amazing miracle of Jesus being raised from the dead. Yes, He has risen! He has risen indeed! Hallelujah! Yet, are we truly aware of the unfathomable miracle that we too have died and been resurrected? If so, why aren’t we also proclaiming this glorious miracle on “Easter” morning, or any other morning, for that matter? Is it that Tozer is accurate in saying,

“Among the plastic saints of our times, Jesus has to do all the dying,
And all we want to hear is another sermon about his dying”?

Scripture clearly tells us,

I have been crucified with Christ;
And it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me;
And the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God,
Who loved me and gave Himself up for me.
Galatians 2:20

In order to have been raised into new life, I had to have been dead! As a chosen one of God, I have always been in Christ, including during His crucifixion and resurrection. Instead of rejoicing in this fact, most “Easter” morning services draw attention, in one way or another, to believers needing to “die to self” in response to Christ’s death for them. If we have already died and have been resurrected, if it were possible, why would it be necessary that we die again? Did Jesus fall short in what He accomplished on our behalf? I’d like to share with you this brief note which speaks very succinctly to this issue –

CAN THE DEAD RAISE THEMSELVES?

Over the last few years, I’ve read a lot of posts on Facebook that use the phrase “dying to self,” and other related concepts. The implications of taking up our cross daily and following Jesus are indeed vital. Here, I would like to call attention to a crucial reality that must be the vine of all the branches of life in Christ.

In order for us to pursue Christ in “dying to self” we must first understand that we are already dead! Believers were identified with Christ at every point in His self-giving for us. When Jesus was crucified – we were crucified! When He was buried – we were buried! When He was raised from the dead -- we were raised with Him! When Christ ascended to the Father -- we went with Him to be seated in the heavenlies.

Paul noted, “knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him” (Romans 6:6). The believer does not and can not put the self-life to death. No, we are already dead because we were there with Christ when He died. But we are not left in death. The emphasis falls on us being raised to newness of life because He was raised on the third day.

There is all the difference in the world between us making efforts to die to self, and us taking up our cross daily as those knowing that we are already dead, and experiencing the living, resurrected Christ expressing Himself through our innermost being. The one leads to frustration, bondage and performance-based religion. The other leads to a life of love and freedom in which the self-life is increasingly abandoned.

Christ says to us,
“In Me, you are already dead, buried and resurrected;
now live that out by faith in each day that I give to you!”

The Law said, “do this and live.” Jesus says, “I am alive in you, now pursue life in the Son.” Boiled down, Paul said, “You have the Spirit of Life, now walk in step with the Spirit.”

Many sermons, books and podcasts about living the “Christian life” have been consumed by saints. The tragedy is that such sources often communicate that the believer needs more than Christ -- “you need to tithe,” “you need the baptism of the Spirit so that you can speak in tongues,” “you need to fast,” you need to follow this scheme or formula.

However, Paul stated that believers are “complete in Christ.” Of course, a growth process is involved, but growth results organically from the branch deriving life from its attachment to the vine. Paul could tell the Philippians to “work out their salvation” only because it was the Lord “working in them to will and do His good pleasure.” A newborn infant has a lot of maturing to do, but it is “complete” at birth – everything is resident in the little child to become a full grown adult. We bear fruit by abiding in the Vine. We can do nothing without Him. As Kat Huff noted, “We cannot even die without Him. How humbling is that?” – by Jon Zens

For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God
(Colossians 3:3).

A sermon focus only on the death and resurrection of Christ is only half of the story and ultimately feeds into the bondage of self-effort! May I encourage you to stop trying to do something which Jesus already accomplished! Instead, make your celebration complete by basking in the freedom of the position His death bought for you and begin proclaiming,

“I have risen! I have risen indeed! Hallelujah!”

As you live in this freedom, you will find that the self whom you have worked so hard to eradicate… will little by little slough away.

Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie

P.S. Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/. You may also contact me at:
Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
505 Jefferson St.
Diagonal, IA 50845

The Blessings of Hollyhocks

Last fall, I planted Hollyhocks and I see that they are peeking through the soil! I love old-fashioned flowers and Hollyhocks are one of my favorites. Having graced outbuildings on farmsteads for over a century, these dazzling beauties have also been a favorite in English cottage gardens for hundreds of years. Years ago Hollyhocks were planted next to the outhouse so that refined ladies could just look for them without having to ask, “Where is your privy?” While there isn’t a lot of “sophistication” in my family background, I do remember them growing next to the outhouse at Grandma’s! With some varieties growing up to 9 feet tall, in their rich and delicate colors, standing so majestic and proud, Grandma’s Hollyhocks “marked the spot”!

One of my favorite neighborhood memories is learning to make dolls from Hollyhock blossoms and buds. My friend and neighbor, Amy Pumfrey taught me how. Guess where we found the flowers? Yep; next to their outhouse! While I wasn’t very old, I still remember how to make these pretty dollies! Carefully peeling off the green of a bud, Amy showed me its gleaming white face under an elaborate bee-hive hair do. Breaking off a section of a toothpick and threading it into the base of a blossom with about a quarter inch remaining, we placed the head onto the protruding end of the toothpick. We then gave our dolly arms using more toothpick pieces.

Voila! She was absolutely stunning in her eloquent dress frilled with heart-shaped petals!

Hollyhock dolls love being creative – they like floating in a bowl of water or decorating the top of a cake. They even like being carried on a skewer as a bouquet.

As a young girl, I had no idea that Hollyhocks offer so many blessings.
Not only are they pretty and fun, they also have medicinal properties!

Having a soothing affect on mucous membranes, tea from the blossoms is used for treating:
• coughs and bronchitis
• earaches
• gastrointestinal problems
• bladder infection
• skin inflammation.

Just before they fully bloom, harvest the flowers and air-dry them at 95°F. Pour 1 cup of boiling water over one blossom. Steep 5 minutes. Add a bit of honey and/or lemon if desired. One cup daily is recommended.

Hollyhocks are usually easy to grow. When planning their permanent home consider that they are drought tolerant, but they bloom best in moist soil and full sun. They are heavy feeders and we have plenty of horse poop if you need any! Hollyhocks bloom from the bottom up and pinching off the dead flowers encourages new blooming. Keep in mind, however, that they don’t bloom until the second year!

When the bloom's petals fall off the seed pods are exposed. Resembling an old draw-string coin purse with little coins (seeds) inside, its best to leave the pod undisturbed until it opens by itself. You may then pick the pods and scatter the seeds where you’d like to grow more Hollyhocks or collect them in an envelope and freeze them to kill any potential weevils. Once the pods are spent, trim the plant to about 8 inches and cover with coal ashes to keep the slugs away. While Hollyhocks do best when their roots are undisturbed, you may dig up short side shoots in September and October for transplanting or sharing with a friend.

I can hardly wait until my Hollyhocks bloom. I bet you’ll never guess where I planted them!

Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie

P.S. Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/. You may also contact me at:
Bonnie Jaeckle
In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life
Diagonal Progress
505 Jefferson St.
Diagonal, IA 50845

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LENT? WHAT'S LENT? Part II

In last week’s article I shared that most of us have been taught that by sacrificing something for Lent we “create within ourselves the desire to do God’s will”. However, according to Romans 8:5, 7, we are not capable of such an accomplishment:

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.

Instead,
It is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure, (Philippians 2:13).

We also learned last week that according to the standard teachings, we make sacrifices during the Lenten season in a effort “To make His kingdom come by making it come first of all in their hearts”. However, if we look closely at Scripture, we’ll discover that this is a false doctrine. Nothing in God’s Word indicates that He is setting up His kingdom in the hearts of men. Instead, Jesus came into Galilee, proclaiming the gospel of God, saying, ‘The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel,’ (Mark 1:14-15). When the Pharisees asked when the kingdom of God would come, Jesus answered, The kingdom of God is not coming with signs to be observed, nor will they say, ‘Look, here it is!’ or ‘There!’ for behold, the kingdom of God is in the midst of you, (Luke 17:20-21). Some interpret this to say, “The Kingdom of God is within you.” I doubt that He would be making such a declaration about the Pharisees! The Messiah had already come! Christ, the King was among them and His miracles were evident appearances that His Kingdom had arrived!

If you are considering “giving-up something for Lent,” may I suggest that rather than conforming to man-made traditions, God’s word is very clear about the sacrifices which please Him:

Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers…. Remember those who are in prison…. and those who are mistreated…. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled…. Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have…. Remember your leaders, those who spoke to you the word of God. Consider the outcome of their way of life, and imitate their faith. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. Do not be led away by diverse and strange teachings…. Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name. Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God, (Hebrews 13:1-16).

It is through obedience to such things, not religious rituals, that we experience intimacy with our Lord!

Then shall your light break forth like the dawn,
and your healing shall spring up speedily;
your righteousness shall go before you;
the glory of the LORD shall be your rear guard.
Then you shall call, and the LORD will answer;
you shall cry, and he will say, ‘Here I am.’
…..for the mouth of the LORD has spoken,
(Isaiah 58:8-9, 14).

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect, (Romans 12:1-8).

Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie

LENT? WHAT'S LENT?

This time of year always reminds me of the Sunday, our son, Jake and I were sitting next to a couple who were “new comers” in our congregation. Neither of them had much of a church-going history, consequently they knew very little about the “standard operating procedures” of a typical Sunday service, the institutional church calendar, etc. As the pastor of that congregation, my husband, Gary announced that it was the season of Lent. Being unfamiliar with anything other than lint from clothes dryers and belly-buttons, the husband of this new couple said quite loudly, “Lent! What’s Lent?” While his wife was busy elbowing the poor fella in the ribs, Jake and I nearly burst into laughter! Recalling this scene cracks me up every time, yet the chap had a good question, “What’s Lent?”

Unlike other “holidays” celebrated by the secular and the religious, the Lenten season seems to be reserved for the “dedicated religious believers”. While we may truly be dedicated, we must seek to understand what Scripture teaches about observing such celebrations rather than following the traditions of man (Mark 7:7-9).

Regardless of our denominational background, Western Christian liturgical calendars are based on the cycle of the Roman Rite of the Catholic Church since this cycle pre-dates the Reformation. Consequently, the Catholic Church is where we should turn to understand the practice of Lent. According to The Catholic Encyclopedia:

Lent is the period of six and one half weeks from Ash Wednesday to Easter Sunday. During Lent, for 40 days, excluding Sundays, fasting is recommended for all Catholics according to the laws of fast. This is reminiscent of the 40 days of our Lord's unbroken fast (Matthew. 4:3-4).

The real aim of Lent is, above all else, to prepare men for the celebration of the death and Resurrection of Christ…the better the preparation the more effective the celebration will be. One can effectively relive the mystery only with purified mind and heart. The purpose of Lent is to provide that purification by weaning men from sin and selfishness through self-denial and prayer, by creating in them the desire to do God’s will and to make His kingdom come by making it come first of all in their hearts.

This explains the common question, “What are you giving-up for Lent?” While “spiritual discipline” may be a good thing, no amount of any form of self-denial makes us clean before God. Instead, Scripture teaches that we are purified by faith in the shed blood of Jesus Christ (Hebrews 9:11-14, Acts 15:9).

Do we truly believe that we can adequately prepare ourselves to “relive the mystery” of Christ’s death and resurrection by relinquishing one worldly pleasure or another for 40 days? In fact, if such things are so “bad” that we feel a need to “sacrifice” them for Lent, why are we doing them at all? Isn’t it magical thinking to believe that we can earn favor with God by such practices?

If with Christ you died to the elemental spirits of the world,
why, as if you were still alive in the world, do you submit to regulations—
“Do not handle, Do not taste, Do not touch”…
—according to human precepts and teachings?
These have indeed an appearance of wisdom in promoting self-made religion
and asceticism and severity to the body,
but they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh,
(Colossians 2:20-23).

Our heavenly Father certainly doesn’t mince any words regarding His view about such religious practices.

Is such the fast that I choose,
a day for a person to humble himself?
Is it to bow down his head like a reed,
and to spread sackcloth and ashes under him?
Will you call this a fast,
and a day acceptable to the LORD?
(Isaiah 58:1-5)

Yet, He doesn’t leave us wondering about what He does desire:

Is not this the fast that I choose:
to loose the bonds of wickedness,
to undo the straps of the yoke,
to let the oppressed go free,
and to break every yoke?
Is it not to share your bread with the hungry
and bring the homeless poor into your house;
when you see the naked, to cover him,
and not to hide yourself from your own flesh?
(Isaiah 58:6-7)

Rather than a “preparation” for a ceremonial observance, such a lifestyle is actually the result of what Jesus has already accomplished on our behalf!

Stay tuned next week for more on “What’s Lent?”

Whole-Heartedly,
Bonnie

HARDEE'S ON HARRISON

As a trauma nurse, I witnessed many unusual things and experienced many unforeseen circumstances.  Like the following, some of those experiences are forever branded in my mind:

It wasn’t uncommon for people to come to the E.R., complaining of one fictitious ailment or another, hoping for their predetermined outcome: drugs, attention, free room and board, etc.  This was particularly common on cold winter nights when the homeless were looking for shelter.  Most of them were in often enough that they were on a first name basis with us!  So that we could make preliminary preparations, when the paramedics radioed in, they would often provide us with gender and initials if they were transporting someone whom we all knew.  Although it isn’t likely today, back in those days, hospitals would often provide a room for the night if it was exceptionally cold outside.  It didn’t take long for word about the hospitals’ unwritten policy to travel the streets and, during really cold spells, the homeless would often relish a long hot shower, delight in a good night’s sleep and savor a decent meal.

One evening the paramedics provided us with information about a female whom they were transporting, but gave no initials.  We prepared for her anticipated needs; however after a brief examination it was evident that she truly didn’t need hospitalization and she was discharged.  She was not a happy camper!

I offered to find her a ride home; the conversation went like this:

“Do you have any relatives or friends whom I can call to come get you?”  She just stared at me.

“What is your address?  I’d be glad to ask the police to take you home.”  She looked right through me!

“Where do you sleep at night?”  “Hardee’s on Harrison,” she responded abruptly!

After spending several nights on a bench at Hardee’s restaurant on Harrison Street, evidently she’d gotten wind of the hospitals’ “standard procedure” and hoped that she’d be granted a room for the night.  She was disappointed that the outcome wasn’t what others seemed to have experienced.

My heart went out to our new E.R. friend.  Her situation reminds me of times in my life when it seemed as though I had no one to call, didn’t know where to turn and that the Provider and Comforter upon whom others had come to depend didn’t seem to be showing up for me:

Where in the universe are You?

What on earth are You doing during these endless dark nights?

Where is the assurance that You’re in the midst of my spiritual hunger and thirst?

Where am I to turn to find rest for my weary body and mind?

For the sake of Jesus, why don’t You show up?

Ever been there?

Not unlike our E.R. friends, when we plead for help, we often have a predetermined outcome in mind and get pretty disturbed when God doesn’t pull through accordingly.

Yet, Father doesn’t abandon us during these trials.  After all, it was our Creator who granted Satan limited power in Job’s life (Job 1:12) and He had an ultimate goal in mind in using “the Accuser” to test Job.  He waits and watches while holding the reins:

Will she turn to Me or others?

Will she continue to honor Me in the midst of the storm?

Will her faith in Me waiver?

To the human mind, God’s approach often seems cold and calculating and we’re typically clueless as to what His goal is, yet in due course, Job understood it well:

Then Job answered the Lord and said,

“I know that You can do all things,

and that no purpose of Yours can be thwarted.”…

“Therefore I have declared that which I did not understand,

things too wonderful for me, which I did not know.”…

“I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear;

But now my eye sees You;

Therefore I retract,

And I repent in dust and ashes.”

Job 42:1-6

Like Job, when we come to the end of our trial actually seeing Him rather than simply knowing about Him, then we will realize that Hardee’s on Harrison is not such a bad place to be.

Whole-Heartedly,

Bonnie

THE WELCOME MAT

We recently had visitors from the city who hadn’t been here for a few years.  We were excited about preparing our home for them.  One of our visitors refers to himself as “somewhat of a germ freak,” so country life is a bit of a challenge for him.  While we try to accommodate him as best we can, things don’t always turn out as planned!

A few hours before they arrived, our neighbor, Robbie, came running across the pasture carrying our momma cat, Missie.  Gasping for air, he announced, “She was at our house and I think something happened to her!”  One look at Missie’s barely attached, mangled paw confirmed Robbie’s concern!  Being predisposed to infection and a prime target for predators, putting her outside was too risky!  Closing Missie in the shower for observation and treatment seemed like a better option.  While zipping through some emergency care, I prayed that she’d do well until we could offer more extended attention.

Soon our guests arrived.  While Missie seemed to be content in her new protective “cage,” as the minutes passed, her cold paw began to warm-up and the odor of dead flesh began to waft through the house.  We apologized for the smell and explained the situation.  While they were quite concerned for Missie, the “germ freak” became a bit uneasy.  The conversation went something like this:

Germ freak:  “Where is she?”

Me:  “In the shower.”

Germ freak: “The one we normally shower in?”

Me:  “Yes.”

Germ freak: silence

One of our visitors was particularly excited about seeing our Haflinger horses so... we all walked out to the pasture.  The horses came to greet us and our friends oohed and aahed over their beauty.  However, a few days before our guests’ arrival, we noticed that the gelding had rubbed an area on his hip until it was raw.  The conversation went something like this:


Germ freak:  “Oh my gosh!  What’s wrong with your horse?”

Me:  “What do you mean?”

Germ freak:  “That spot on his side!

Me:  “He’s been rubbing an itch that’s getting better with treatment.”

Germ freak:  “Why is he doing that?

Me:  “Probably some type of parasite.”

Germ Freak:  Oh!  Is it contagious?

Me:  “Could be.”

Germ Freak:  silence


It didn’t take long for the thrill of seeing the horses to wear off and we were on our way back to the house.  After a bit, we suggested taking their belongings to the guest house before dark.  At the front door of our visitors’ quarters we have a lovely mat that reads, “Welcome.”  On the mat lay our 18 year old cat, Smokie.  Under normal circumstances one might think, “How inviting!”  However, Smokie not only would not move, she cried when we touched her!  With a body full of arthritis, Smokie normally whimpered a bit when we handled her, but not like this!  We gently picked her up and lovingly placed her on the cushioned rocking chair on the front porch.  The conversation went something like this:


Germ freak:  “What’s wrong with your cat?”

Me:  “She’s old and probably isn’t going to be with us much longer.  We’re surprised she’s made it this long.”

Germ Freak:  Is she OK?

Me:  I’m not sure.

Germ freak: silence

With everything unloaded, we were blessed with a great time of fellowship.  Time flew and the hour was late when we suggested that we all head to bed.  Gary offered to accompany our guests to their lodging area to double-check that their needs were met.  When they arrived at the front door, Smokie was there to greet them… again.  However this time she didn’t cry when Gary touched her!

The conversation went something like this:

Germ freak:  “Is she ok?”

Gary:  “She’s dead.”

Germ freak:  “She died on the welcome mat?”

Gary:  “Yea, I guess so.”

Germ freak:  silence

The next afternoon arrived all too quickly, for us anyway, and it was time for our friends to get on the road.  Quite an adventure this visit was for them.  In years past, I would have reflected upon our time together and judged myself as a miserable hostess.  Today I find freedom in knowing that hospitality is an attitude of the heart.  I can honestly say that our hearts read, “WELCOME!” no matter how things might unfold.

Ya’ll come back now.  Ya hear!


Whole-Heartedly,

Bonnie



P.S.  Please feel free to contact me with questions, thoughts, topics you’d like to ponder or to read past articles at: http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/">http://whole-heartedlife.blogspot.com/>.  You may also contact me at:

             Bonnie Jaeckle

             In Search of the Whole-Hearted Life

             Diagonal Progress

             505 Jefferson St.

             Diagonal, IA 50845